The power of TRUTH

"Kitna chain hota hai na sachchai mein" a small sentence with deep and strong meaning.

We all know the power of truth but then also sometimes we falls in a situation where we speck lie in our life to hide something. And after that all of you must be agree with me that speaking lie increase your tension and trouble in many ways may you have to speak another lie and other lie to protect your first lie. There is a one Muhavara in hind that “Ek Jooth ko chupane ke liya bahot jooth bole ne padte hai” and yes this is true.

Here I am going to share with you one incidence of my life related to this. I am girl from small town. Before 15 years, for my college and graduation I came to one big city near my town.  I was a much protected child studied in girls school not allows to talk with boys and be friend of boys. But in my college both girls and boys were studying. Here I got many friends. We have a big group of 7 girls and 5 boys. Many times we used to go form movie. I spoke lie to my parents when we were gone for movie first time. I told them that I am going to my friend Pooja’s home. They said ok go. I was happy that I find the solution. This thing happened 2-3 times. 2-3 times I spoke lie and gone for movie and outing with friends. Initially I was happy but there was something in my mind which was not allowing me to enjoy with my friends. Some thoughts were coming in my mind that I am wrong somewhere; am cheating my parents, etc…. 

Then one day I went to my parents and told to them everything in detail how many times I said lie to them and why? After long silent my mother came to me and gave me hug and said very well that you finally said truth to us. My father explains me their reasons. And then they had invited my all friends and met them and after that I feel very relaxed and always went out with friends with parent’s permission. I felt very proud like I won the race.

Today I am a mother same thing comes to me in different forms. Being parents it’s our responsibility to teach our kids to speak truth. And it’s a very difficult task. I always appreciate my daughter whenever she speaks truth after doing any mistake. I want to give this advice to all parents the plz don’t scold your child whenever he/she makes any mistake or any big big mistake just explain the right thing and push them to not hide anything from parents. Try this idea. It will defiantly work in some way.

I hope from my story and after watching below video from Kinley at least someone will inspire and learn the Power of truth and feel “Kitna chain hota hai na sachchai mein”.

This post is a part of Happy Hours activity by Indiblogger in connection with "Kitna chain hota hai na sachchai mein” by Kinley.

On Vacation with Kids - FUN and EXCITEMENT

Vacations are the best part of life. We always wait for vacation. Whoever we are doesn't matter kids, parents or grandparents we just love holidays.

Last December we were gone to "GIR Forest" in Gujarat. Very Beautiful and Amazing place to visit with your kids. I have two kids. My daughter is 7 years old and son is 2 years old. We were gone there with one of our business friends. They are not having kid. So compare to them we enjoyed more our vacation trip with kids. Let me tell you how as you all know kids are always excited to know news things and a visit new place, their excitement makes us also excited. Their minds are with full of questions. They are always eager to know new things. And to answer their questions you also have to do some research before visiting any new place. So this will help you to prepare and make good plan for vacation trip.

Lets start from beginning. There first and obvious question is Where we are going? then next comes what is there? etc....

As we had gone to GIR. I told to my little daughter that we are going in a forest. She was totally excited. Kids just love animals. She just made a list of animals which we would going to see there at forest. We had gone for a Jungle Safari. There you have a choice for Jungle safari at day time or at night. As we were with kids and we can see better view in day time so we choose to go at day time. We enjoyed a lot there. My daughter was so happy after spotting Lions, Dears, Neal Cows, etc… Here are some pic of our “Gir” trip from these you can judge how much fun we had there.

We always have to keep ourselves active with kids. You just can’t sit idle. You always have less time. Packing is the best part that you and your kid both enjoyed before trip and most boring part after trip. Seriously my daughter helps me a lot in packing gives really wonderful ideas. What we should take with us and what we should not take. I just love to hear all these from her. Kids make us to feel and behave like a kid. They remand us of our childhood and leave that part of our life again with our children. I always enjoyed my each time and vacation with my kids. Kids make your trip or holiday memorable.  

Before end let me tell you some useful tips which you should follow while planning vacation trip with your kids. Always stay more than 1 night, stay over Sunday, and select a hotel with pools and game rooms, and also check for TV, bath Tub and Laundry, always carry snacks and water bottles with you mineral water is good, take some medicines also. 

Club Mahindra hotels are always upto the mark. No complains about it. Best for family vacation. Kids loves the facilities they are providing.

This post is a part of Happy Hours activity by Indiblogger in connection with "Teddy Travelogues”.
Link - http://membership.clubmahindra.com/TeddyTravelogues/index.html

Rise Above Your Fears

Rise above fear - this line it self motivates you to rise above your fear. Really this thing happens to me also and I am sure with many of you. Here let me share a small story with you all. It’s my own story.

Before 3 years I and my family (I, my husband, little daughter 4 years old at that time, mother-in-law and father-in-law) had gone for Char-Dham Yatra (Badrinath, Kedarnath, Gangotri and Yamnotri). What a beautiful place, mountains, rivers, snow, trees, etc... Can’t describe in words its like a heaven. While we were returning we came to "Rishikesh". Rishikesh is very famous for its adventurous activities. At Rishikesh you can do river rafting, mountain climbing, bungi jumping, etc.... and many more. My husband Amit really likes adventure sports; he loves to do these activities. But I was very scared at that time.

Then we had decided to go for River Rafting. Amit was very excited as he always. But I was scared I have a fear of Height and Water, so initial I refused to go for it. Amit forced me to come but I said "no". In River Rafting there is a age limit for children and old people. My little daughter and father-in-law were not fall in the age category for river rafting, but both of them were very excited and really wanted to go for it. This is the first which inspire me to "rise above my fear" if a little 4 years old girl and a person above 60 years can do River rafting then I should feel shame on myself. After that I got ready for it wear my lifejacket and ready to go. Then we all moved to our 18KM ride for river rafting. The flow of river was very fast lots of ups and downs. Initially it was scary but soon I start enjoying myself. Here I rise above fear my first fear of Water.

Now come to my second fear of Height. On our 18KM ride of river rafting we had taken a small break at one spot. Here everybody getting out of boat and relaxing and having snakes, tea, cold drinks etc... At that spot there was a one point (place) above 25-30 ft above the river water. Many people go there and jumped into the river. I was just sitting there having snakes and looking towards them. Then suddenly saw Amit at that point he shouted and said "hey look at me" and jumped into the river. Then he came to me in a very filmy and funny way, he gave me a Mountain Dew and said "Dar ke aage jeet hai". He motivate me to jump from 25-30 ft height into river to overcome my fear of height, he explain me the safety precaution and what fun he was having while jumping. After that I also drank that Mountain Dew in filmy way and said yes yes yes "Darr ke aage jeet hai". Finally I tooked a risk and overcome my fear.

And finally I went to that height and jumped into the river. Really what an amazing feeling it was. Feeling like top of the world.

Really "A little effort can help anyone to rise above their fear”.

This post is a part of Happy Hours activity by Indiblogger in connection with "Rise above fear”.